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So I am Pregnant for the second time.. My Daughter is three and I am 28 weeks Pregnant... I guess what I was wondering is if anyother women who are pregnant just honestly don't have any desire to have sex anymore? With My First daughter it was different couldn't keep my hands off him lol but now I am just always so tired and really just feel bad for him becuase I don't Ever Feel like it.... has this happen to anyone else?? is it normal?? I guess has this ever happen to anyone else. Thanks

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Yes, I think it is normal. During my first pregnancy I could not get enough! lol but hubby on the other hand wasn't into the whole belly thing, really sucked since we were both on opposite ends.  After I gave birth the wheels completely turned! He was back in action and I didnt care for it at all. Took me a while to get back into the groove, but I eventually did.  Guess your body is just so wacked out with hormonal imbalance that it takes time to adjust to your normal levels.


 


During my current pregnancy I'm experiencing the same thing, always tired and never really in the mood. He on the other hand (perhaps because he is being turned down so often) wants it constantly.  We've talked about it, its nothing with him I explained, just pregnancy in general causes these weird peaks and valleys.


 


I think as long as neither party sets high expectations (since being pregnant is a rocky ride) everything will be ok, and no one will get their feelings hurt.  :)


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I am NEVER in the mood... LOL =) Seriously, I feel terrible for my husband because I'm always turning him down.


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Its normal, i'm almost never in the mood i actually have no desire to really be touched or cuddled at all...i dont even like huggin relatives since being prego its just the hormone change

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i hear its totally normal...and its different for everyone.


so dont feel bad :)


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oh hun...i never felt like it with my last or this pregnancy.....

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oh yea! lol.  i am so lucky i have a faithful husband.  i think we have had sex about 5 times this whole pregnancy.  but he is cool with it.  he is scared to hurt her anyway. 

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oh well i think its normall


but then i just think you should comprimise with something else..rather then just feeling bad for him i mean this is my first but i was really sick but i dont know.. i did it just for him ya know


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well my 1st 3 months I didn't want sex at all until about 2 weeks after my husband left for Iraq and now all I want to do is ravage him...lol! Well not at this point but about up to a week ago i did.

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Yea.. I don't feel like having sex at all. But i do once in awhile, I trust him and know he wouldn't cheat.. But it's just one of those things  you think about..


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