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have to have EVERTHING?(IMPORTANT)

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I was wondering why you had to sneak out too. I think that it is great that your getting yourself back on track but I would try to make sure I was 100% like having furniture and such. If your parents just took your son why don't you call the police? I know you want your son but are you really ready to have him back? There has to be some reason that your parents just don't feel safe about giving your son back.

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idk, cuz another day i told mom that today im moving out and they all mad and threating me to call cps blah so i just whtever stay it so i want sneak out than fighting blah, but i have everthing and it alll good and parent wont give me back cuz my boyfriend isnt having job, that dumb :( now im lookin new crin, 3 in one or 4 in one for my son, not want old one

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When you say you don't have furniture yet, does that mean baby essentials? I would say that what you most definitley would need would be a crib (especially if that's where he's been sleeping. Co-sleeping is okay, but many babies who are used to the crib may be at more of a risk for rolling off the bed, etc because they're not used to co-sleeping). If the apartment is old, I would say child-proof everything! Also, do you have assistance, such as TANF, food stamps, W.I.C (Women Infants and Children program that provides nutritious food to low-income mothers). You said that your bf doesnt have a job, so I was just wondering if there was some sort of steady income going into the home. Stability is such a number one key to having a child. Just so you know, if you truly feel ready to have your son back, nobody can keep him from you unless Child Services say otherwise. It's probably pretty hard because it's your parents that are holding Heath back, but the police would definitley help you with your situation and they would take Heath and bring him to you. Either that or they would escort you to your parents house to go get him. Now, I don't know you from a hole in the wall, but from what I've gathered it sounds like you really love your son.

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Heathsmommy wrote...

idk, cuz another day i told mom that today im moving out and they all mad and threating me to call cps blah so i just whtever stay it so i want sneak out than fighting blah, but i have everthing and it alll good and parent wont give me back cuz my boyfriend isnt having job, that dumb :( now im lookin new crin, 3 in one or 4 in one for my son, not want old one

 

 

 

Your a grown woman so why would they have to call the cops??? If my parents threatened to call the cops on me for moving out I would tell them to go ahead. If you can legally leave and legally have your child then there really is nothing they can do. I would really push your boyfriend to get a job. If your getting welfare of some sort that is not going to be enough to happily raise your child. Yeah you can get him the things he needs like food and stuff but with that limited amount of money it is going to be hard then you have another little one on the way which is going to require more money. I don't know you and I hope you can get your life straight but just loving a child is not always enough. I really think you guys need to get things in order and just having an apt. with no furniture is not getting it together. I know you love your son but you need to do what is best for him. I'm not trying to judge you but I have read what you have wrote in the past and it seem like you have a lot of trouble. I really hope for the best for you and just get it together. You'll get your son back in time.

 


 


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I agree with the above. You're an adult, not a child, and your parents have no legal right to take away your son. you don't need to sneak out like you're 16. You are allowed as an adult to move out when you want to. You need to focus on getting stable, which usually requires a job. You said your bf was not a citizen, right? Then YOU need to get a job to be stable. I don't want to be rude, that is the last thing I want to be to you, but it scares me to know you have another child on the way and you're not in the right place financially and maybe emotionally for a 2 child family.

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Doula & Student Midwife

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im been tryin gettin job, they all decline me :( im going a place where they can help me get job tho, i need it so bad

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okay I don't mean this to be mean at all.. I'm def not trying to be mean.. I don't know how to say this in a nice way.. but I'll try... were you born in a different country or what's going on with your english? You seem to not be able to write decent sentences.. this could be affecting your ability to get a job. Just curious though because I can hardly understand what you write sometimes..btw have you had a job before? what was it in? like retail?



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Mommy2Aiden wrote...

okay I don't mean this to be mean at all.. I'm def not trying to be mean.. I don't know how to say this in a nice way.. but I'll try... were you born in a different country or what's going on with your english? You seem to not be able to write decent sentences.. this could be affecting your ability to get a job. Just curious though because I can hardly understand what you write sometimes..btw have you had a job before? what was it in? like retail?


 


 

She's deaf.


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Jenn- Mommy to Hunter & Liev, Wife to Brian

Doula & Student Midwife

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Heathsmommy wrote...
im been tryin gettin job, they all decline me :( im going a place where they can help me get job tho, i need it so bad


 

That's good that you're trying to get a job. I know the economy is crap right now, but it's important for raising children that someone in the household has a steady income. Also, with the financial help you do get I would try to save as much of that as you can and only buy what you really need. I keep seeing posts from you about tattoos and piercings. If you're trying to get your child back, you're currently pregnant, and do not have a job, those things should be the last thing on your mind. Save, save and save.


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Jenn- Mommy to Hunter & Liev, Wife to Brian

Doula & Student Midwife

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thank u, yea im deaf, i thought my english was fine, but isnt :( seriously need go back to school, to improving my English level...i thought i did okay


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