Honey, I jinxed myself today by saying how pleased we are to be having this baby yet i find myself in a similar position to you. Ok so things haven't been good for a while but i wasn't expecting this. I am in no position to advise you because right now I am wondering the same. That said I plan on making the most of the gift that I have despite the worries and prove that I don't need him....once I get over the murderous feeling I have at the moment. As for another woman, well I too don't know if one is involved and I am unsure if I care...does it make a difference to the outcome? yea he may have betrayed but will it make things better if we get spiteful? I think not. I will wait for others opinions too because I am not rational right now

I am so sorry to hear about both of your situations! That is just terrible. I can not imagine being in your shoes. But I think all you can do now is make the best out of a bad situation. Get some help/support from family members go and get financial assistance from the govt. Once the baby is born get the men for child support. Good Luck and if either of you need someone to talk to I am here:)

I am lucky that i had my first two when I was young so did the parenting on my own because their dad was still young himself and nothing makes a man grow up fast lol This has prepared me well because I am able to cope. I also get paid by our health service because I am a student of theirs so again my finances should be fine but I plan on hitting him hard for the maintenance because he has plenty of money and one hell of an inheritance too! I'm too mad to be sad about it all, I just want to rip his head off lol

I'm sorry to hear you have to go through that! I cannot imagine what you're feeling so I can't say much but try to keep your head up. Try and get some assistance and think positive. That baby inside you will keep you company and you will find that there is no greater company than your child. Just feeling my baby move made me automatically feel loved when I was feeling lonley. Now, she's my two year old best friend! I love my hubby to pieces, but man will ever hold a place in my heart as big as she does! Hope things get better soon!

I know the feeling. My husband left me right after I gave birth to his son. His excuse, he didn't love me anymore but nothing had changed before hand. Turns out it was all just a lie and he was overwhelmed with two jobs and now three kids but he didn't think for one min that the always at home, stay home mom, who takes care of everything there would be overwhelmed just a little too. Good luck.

well the father of my kids is a jerk. he left me after i had our daughter. then he came back to be with me for a while. got me pregnant again and left me again. he says he's never coming back to me. he wants to be in thier lives but just not with me.