I really am sorry you have to deal with that. I understand you can't neccessarily get away from her but can you block her from your pages online? It may not be much but it would give you a little more privacy yourself. Hopefully things will calm down after awhile and she'll move on to bug someone else!

First set your pages to private if they are not already, don't add her as a friend and don't add ppl that are mutual friends. I can kind of relate, Juan's ex-wife is psycho too, thank God they never had kids together so we don't have to deal with her. She emails Juan's sister and nieces all the time. She's always saying how she wants him back, but when they were together she would stab him and they would fight all the time, so I really don't know why she would want him back if they hated each other the way they did, well anyways she makes up lies and says that she saw me and the baby and that we almost fought lol I never seen her in my life, and she also is always trying to see what my daughter looks like, she always is trying to get pictures of her, so we wont give his family any pics of Jenelle which is sad but we don't want his ex getting them. She has a boyfriend so I don't know why she wont let it go. I know that one day we will probably run into her and it kind of scares me because I wouldn't be surprised if she hurt me and my daughter. I know that there is no way to get away from your hubby's ex wife because they have a child together, maybe all three of you should seek counseling and try to figure out ways to better cope with each other, not for yourselves but for the child.

i would say avoid all personal contact with the ex, If you have a mutual friend that the ex can drop of the kid at and you guys can pick her up at. I would highly recommend something along those lines, at least until she can Grow up and realize that you 2 aren't going any were on her watch. good luck hugs.

girl if he loves you bump and dont let her get to you atleast thats all you have to deal with my hubbys baby mama is ***** and she never meets us in the middle and never understands unless its her way it always as be us going and picking her and dropping her off we live 2 hours away and she always sends her with some of the nastys outfits it stupid but i know how you feel!!!

WOW!!!I could rant in here for pages and pages but,,, bottom line, you have to deal with everyone involved in the childs family so make it the best you can. GRIN AND BARE IT, TAKE BITCHES WITH A GRAIN OF SALT and do what you think is right for the children.