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Need some advice...please

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I agree with Shante, do whats best for u & ur daughter. Don't worry about him. Look into finding out how to make him sign over his rights maybe? But I def don't think ure over reacting. He shouldn't be the way he's being to u & toward the baby. If he didn't want the resposiblity then he shouldn't have done the deed. Or he shouldve  double wrapped it! lol.  You are a very nice young woman & I'm sure are even better in person so I know u will find a MAN (not a lil boy like him) one day who will take care of u & Amora for the rest of ur lives! There are plenty of fish in the sea. I know its hard because u don't want her to grow up like u did without ur biological father but it's not the blood that makes the bond, its the person(s). I'm sure u know the sayings "Anyone can be a mother/father but it takes a special person to be a mommy/daddy!" Mother/Father is only biological, a Mommy/Daddy is the one who is there for u whether its the same person or 2 different ppl & sometimes more than 2. Good luck! <3333333


p.s. save any emails between the 2 of u or conversations thru text or im. Just in case if one day u need them in court to show that he did not want anything to do with her & that he hasn't bought anything/isn't planning on buying anything.


And also how does his family feel about the situation? Are they involved at all? Do they care?


Topics: 5   Posts: 18
I dont think you did anything wrong...i would have done the same exact things actually....personally from my own experience with friends and family who have gone through some of the same problems you are have my advice is dont put him on any legal binding court order for your child because personally i feel if he doesnt except it now or after she is born then he doesnt have any right he gave them up but if you bring him to court over it then that gives his rights as the baby daddy back to a degree meaning if you want child support some states give visitation orders too that you after to follow whether he wants her or not by goin through the courts he could get the rights he's not willing to show you now...just leave him alone and think of how beautiful your child is gonna be and show him from now on that he cant get to you because you are stronger than that


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