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 hi im erica i have been with my boyfriend for only one month and one day hes 16 and im 14 i think i might be pregnant im not forsure but theres a high chance i dont know what to do if i told my mom she would kick me out forsure my bestfriend is pregnant and shes trying to help me but theres not much she can do because me and her cant see each other i just need someone to talk to i have no clue how to handle this or how to get a pregnacy test from the store, and after i know if im forsure pregnant i know i will want to keep my baby but i dont know how i would tell my perents and my boyfriends perents also would kick him out we would have no where to go and no way for money does anyone have anything they could tell me to help me out any advice at all would be great i just need someone to talk to....


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honestly hun, if you only been together a month you are probably fine! you can go to planned parenthood and they have to do confidentiality on letting you take a test to find out most the time it is free! Also the dollar store has tests! it shouldn't be hard to get a dollar for a soda from your parents! even for $3 walmart offers some!!! either way, you need to wait till you are suppose to have your period otherwise you are wasting time and stress unless you plan on getting the day after pill to stop it which it sounds like is not the case! USE PROTECTION next time and get on birth control! last thing this world needs is more babies having babies!

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The other thing too, if you are scared to tell your parents, trust me, there is nothing they can do about it! They will be in shock and get mad, then they will discuss what to do with you! worst thing , They may make you put it up for adoption, or whatever, but if you are both not even working and able to support yourselves what makes you think you can bring life into this world and supply it with the life it deserves? Many families out there want babies and can't have any, IF you can't think about that option maybe you need to re think what you would do if you were to get pregnant! because you are up for a RUDE awakening at your age! There are programs where they will pay you the entire pregnancy and feed you and care for your health care visits to see you through a healthy pregnancy and the people willing to pay you to do this really truly have the money and stability a child needs in life! There are just too many families I see living out of their cars to approve that some 14 year old messed up not only her life but the life of the father and the life of the child!



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