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 Created over 3 years ago
ok so tell me why when i got pregnant with my son all my friends well people i thought were my friends just stopped talking to me and when i sent invitations to the baby shower no one showed up. not even a call or anything later after i had him. then the one friend that was my best friend, i talked to her the day before the shower and she said she was coming and she never did. never call or anything. skip ahead 2 years later she requests me on facebook and i accepted to see what the hell happened and she ask me what happened and that she misses me......what the hell, she has never called in the 2 years nor has she seen my son, just think i was going to make her the god mother.
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Topics: 24 Posts: 113
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Created over 3 years ago
That must be terrible to have your "friends" disappear like that. I can kind of relate and it has not been easy, but then I think I don't want people like that in my son's life. I hope you have a very healthy and happy 2 year old boy. I'm sure he is keeping you busy.
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Created over 3 years ago
honey i am goin thru the same thing....having kids really opens your eyes to who is true or not....i know its hard...it is for me to...but i also see it as a blessing
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Created over 3 years ago
i had the same problem..and am still having it. the girl that was going to be my son's godmother would not stop partying and doing drugs so i stopped talking to her then she got mad at me, oh well. and my so called bff who HAS a child is newly single and is non stop partying and going to the bars and stuff...something that she said she would NEVER do. so now, i pretty much have no friends except for my husband..which is okay because he is my best friend.
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Created over 3 years ago
yea i dont have no one to hang out with (Friends) b.c all anyone my age does is PARTY. But i'm over it I just hang out with my family and am am happy with different things now.
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Created over 3 years ago
thats so messed up im sorry hun people sometimes come to relize they messed up a little to late and expect everything to be the way it was before i know exactly how you feel and i wish i knew what to tell you but your probably better off a true friend would never do that to you no excuse for it
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Created over 3 years ago
Sorry to hear that hun :( I hope things get better for you.
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Jenn- Mommy to Hunter & Liev, Wife to Brian
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Topics: 10 Posts: 27
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Created over 3 years ago
wow it does seem like having a child does make u see who your real friends are and even your friends with babies aren't always around either. i spend alot of time with my sister who is about to have her baby somtime at the end of this month. but i agree it is a blessing to see who will be there 4 u through thick n thin.
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Created over 3 years ago
yeah same here i am just glad i know who my real friends are! some people just never want to grow up. All the drugs and alcohol does is waste years of your life. I don't want my baby around it...all my old friends come up 2 me and say stuff like call me when you go to the hospital to have her or i cant wait too see her but i wonder just how many are just saying that? my husband and mom are my bff"s i know they will never leave me:)
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