First
of all, CONGRATULATIONS! You are having a new baby! Now, on
to the serious stuff. You are going to get yourself prepared
for your new baby, mentally, physically and you will need to
adjust your house and car for the new baby too!
Mentally preparing for the new baby
Remember this, women adjust to having a new baby faster than
men; so, do not expect husbands to start being all fatherly
after the pregnancy is announced. They are not like that.
Women adjust better to the new baby, mentally, because they
experience physical, emotional and psychological changes.
These changes help them adjust to the new baby quicker.
However, men start feeling the new baby when they see the
bump or feel the flicker of baby movement over mommy's
belly.
Physically preparing for the new baby
There is nothing much a new father can do to prepare to the
new baby. What needs to be done by a father needs to be done
BEFORE the new baby is conceived. However, the new father
can try quitting smoking, quitting drinking and other vices
once the new baby is conceived. The new mother needs to do
the same too.
Planning for the new baby: the house and car
With the new baby, depending on whether you are planning to
co-sleep with the baby or whether you are planning to plonk
the baby in a separate room affects the changes to your
home. Either way, we recommend having a separate room for
your new baby, even if the new baby is going to be sleeping
with the new parents for the first couple of months. A baby
crib, some toys, a place to put all the baby's clothes,
shelves to convenient grab lotions, creams, diaper wipes,
diapers, etc. off near the
changing
table
is a MUST.
You will also need to think about getting a baby chair too;
baby chair for the house (at the right height for the dining
table) and a baby chair for the car (for traveling). Some
baby chairs can be adjusted to
fit the
adult dining chair AND fit into the car at the same time.
They are a little bit more expensive than the conventional
baby chairs, but the multi-function is extremely convenient
PLUS it is downright comfortable for your new baby.
Other essential stuff for your new baby
Frankly speaking, the essentials depend wholly on your own
preference, budget and lifestyle. You can live without some
of these things if you think you would rather not waste the
money.
If you have had previous babies before, you probably do not
need too many new baby clothes. New babies outgrow their
clothes terribly fast and it would be a waste of money to
splurge on new clothes. You can get hand-me-downs from
nieces and nephews too, if you want. What you should
probably get are blankets, sweaters, coats, and clothes for
going out. At home, your new baby is not going to mind old
clothes. In fact, it is a fact that your new baby is
probably going to like wearing the old clothes better than
the new clothes. Don't forget the feeding utensils like baby
bowls,
breast
pump
(if you're planning to pump breast milk for your new baby at
work), baby bottles, cloth nappies, diapers, baby wipes,
lotions, shampoo, bath gels, towels,
baby
blankets,
baby bedding, bibs, stroller, etc.
And do not worry, you will do fine. The best thing to do is
to get unbiased referrals from friends and family.